3.29.2013
Running noses
On to a story I meant to tell you a few days ago.
I made someone cry the other day. It began to put into perspective the amount of power I didn't have any idea I held over the employees. I realize now that there was nothing I could have done, and she was close to walking out on her job anyway. Being the straw on the back of the proverbial horse is not an easy position. I told her to "stop asking questions and just get it done." Which apparently equated to me speaking to her like a dog. Whatever my tone of voice may have been any sort of "talking down to her" was completely unintentional, but she wouldn't let me apologize, nor would she accept any sort of apology when I managed to get her in the office.
She is a hard worker, and I hope that she finds something that better fits her personality as threatening a boss with quitting shows that you are not fit for the job you've chosen. She did not threaten me...she simply quit on me, but she did threaten one of the other managers.
That is all of it. As far as I know.
3.21.2013
dinner out
Well there doesn't seem to be much going on here. I've been trying to come up with something exciting to talk about, but there never really seems to be anything that I believe would really peak your interest. I feel like every blog I write needs to be so good that if you were stumbling onto my blog for the first time in this post you would think to yourself, "Damn. That's some good writing. I wonder what her other blog posts are like?"
And each one would be as good. You would feel a desire to keep reading that would be almost irresistible.
But instead I never write because no post is better than a post that sends you away.
Or is it?
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So Josh and I went to a restaurant tonight for the first time. We usually scout a few places out and eat solely at those restaurants that have excellent service (or no need for customer service at all) or excellent food. Either way if it's good it sticks.
Well we had free food tonight...which meant we could branch out a little bit. And boy was the food worth it! The ribs had excellent flavor and the steak was amazingly tender. The server however...he was kind of creepy. He started off by saying "It's great to see you guys in here again!" Which, of course, was very confusing as we had never been in there before, but we figured it might be part of his shtick to make the guest feel "like a regular".
But it wasn't.
This guy genuinely thought he knew us from somewhere. He started off by thinking that we were both from Maryville, and then moved on to thinking that we both worked together. Then he started making up names of ex-fiance's (or he really knew someone) and saying that he knew people that we should know.
It was all kind of awkward.
But it was free, and my water stayed full so a little bit of awkward makes us stronger...maybe?
2.06.2013
this is my job
I've not got much to say...I really should start trying to come up with stories to tell you.
Have you heard about the lady who wouldn't tip because she gives God 10%? I really don't even understand her logic...God asks us to give him 10% and the server was doing her job for below minumum wage. The tip that you give a server has nothing to do with the amount you give your God. The tip is solely based on the service the server gives. Good service means good tip--customarily around 15-20%. Bad service is less...
What does this even have to do with religion?
1.31.2013
A few days late
My brain is kind of broken right now...I guess I'll just try to come up with something later. I don't want these to be bland and not any fun to read, but I am also trying to stick with my plan for the year.
Well, let's see what happens next...
1.21.2013
Tonight was a Good Night
In today's age we fill all our time with false connections, so we believe we are with someone, or near them, or visiting them. We don't allow ourselves to think that we can truly miss someone because how can you miss them when you can "talk" with them immediately. You can really understand what missing someone means when you can't hear from them for an extended period of time. When they aren't on the other end of a text message.
Not really very sure where to go from there...I didn't mean for this to turn into some blathering post about how social media is changing the way the human race interacts. I guess let's just say that I had a good night with some good friends, and I probably need to get out more.
1.11.2013
If this dog drips on my keyboard I'm going to be pissed.
My insurance worked out pretty well for the whole ordeal. If I had called them as soon as I pulled off the road things may have moved along a little quicker, but I wasn't even sure if I was covered under the right type of insurance. I have type "H", and that's all I needed! Unfortunately, we had to wait for a tow-truck, which took only about 45 min, but it seemed like forever at 0300.
I cringed as I watched the "service provider" hook her up and sloooooowly drag her onto the truck bed. I was happy that it was one of the full bed trucks and not a half bed. I'm not sure I could stand to watch her towed on one of those.
I need to go to bed now...There was more I was going to say about this, but I just realized how late it is.
Good morning!!
1.07.2013
These things I would have said if I could have figured out how to say them.
My goal is one blog a week or 52 blogs in the year. I have already missed the "first week" of 1-6, so I will need to write two between 7-14...or something like that. I don't want to end up with crappy half-assed blogs just to get the blog count up, so hopefully I can stick with this a little bit.
There are some things I've been trying to figure out how to get onto paper...but I haven't solidified them in my head. I want to finish writing a book this year, but without the time (or energy) this may be an impossible feat. I have about three really solid ideas, one of which was moving along nicely, but then schedules shifted and I'm stuck with lots of sleep and not enough waking hours. (This is why I'm attempting to get out of this job--so I can have a semi-normal life).
Tonight is the BCS bowl...should be pretty huge since Alabama is in, and we have a lot of Bama fans in the area.
I met someone at work last night that can (hopefully) fix my car! They are also buying the broken apart other car that we have, so that we have money to fix things on either car! (If you can't tell this is a really good thing...)
Well...this has been an informative post...hopefully you will have enjoyed your time here and will check back to see my next post at some point in the next week.